If you’re not sure of what you want, you’re bound to fall for anything. This is the motto that I currently live by but before I attracted Mr. Right I lived with a different mindset. I just wanted to be in a relationship with a man. I really didn’t care about anything else. I didn’t have any vision of where I wanted my relationship to go. Because I had no vision, my relationships were on a rollercoaster for disaster.
Vision gives you a sense of direction of where you’re headed. Before I got clear on my vision for my relationship with Mr. Right, I hit a lot of bumps in the road. While I was dating, I was simply fumbling through different men really trying to figure out what I wanted.
Vision saves you time and energy. When you know exactly what you want to have in your relationship it’s much easier for you to discern the Mr. Wrong’s from the Mr. Right. When you’re dating it’s easy for you to communicate exactly where you want your relationship to go even in the beginning stages. This will save you the energy of being in a relationship with someone only to find out later that he doesn’t want kids or he doesn’t want to get married.
Vision helps you focus on what’s important. Before I attracted Mr. Right, I wasn’t clear on what was important to me. Because I didn’t know what was important sometimes my feelings were hurt by my previous partner and I made a lot of mistakes that could have been avoided.
What is your vision for your relationship with Mr. Right? Do you envision yourself being married or having a huge family?
Mr. Right Assignment
1.If you were in your ideal relationship with your Mr. Right what would it look like?
2.Write your vision in the present tense as if you’re already living that life.
3.Read your vision aloud in the morning and at night.
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